Are you settling for convenience? Compromising beyond the reasonable? Made to feel ashamed of your natural urges and masculinity? Ken was too ? until he broke free through divorce. This is the true story of Ken Jolivet, who after 22 years of marriage embarked upon on a 3-year, turbo-charged quest to live again through travel and pursuits, numerous sexual encounters and attempts to better understand women and self-discovery. Ken's story transports readers with him on his dauntless transformation from husband to player; lost soul to mentor; sexually frustrated to flesh-quenched; unsure to insightful. Part biography, part how-to book that's punctuated by Ken's notorious tales and anecdotes' related to divorce, dating and life, he uses his recent experiences and life template to springboard into one of man's most important considerations: his relationship with women. Written in a raw, honest, humorous, and relevant style, it makes for easy, exciting, and entertaining, yet meaningful reading. No longer satisfied with male oppression, Ken dares to put men in the driving seat to lust, love and life. He closes with lessons learnt on women and life, with knowledge of self, honesty and courage at their core. A must read for any man considering, in the middle of and recovering from divorce and for ?anyone? considering marriage.